i wake up at 5am feeling so sick. I have lists and lists of symptoms , just wondering what sill be next you are not alone , keep your faith . Going through meno is awful! I have also had digestive issues with bloating and gas - feel the need to burp. i have severe nausea, ear ringing, and every other horrible symptom. I apologize for the TMI. In early 50's (appears to be late menopause as still in Peri) no period since mid-December. i am glad to say while they can still come, they are at least frequent. Consigue EVOLUTION en:iTunes: http://smarturl.it/cd9evolutionApple Music: http://smarturl.it/cd9evolutionamSpotify: http://smarturl.it/cd9evolutionspo Google. Spoke too soon! I have had the same thing for 2 months now plus digestive issues and no explanation from the GP. It's hard to think positive, I mean really hard, and we end up wallowing in self pity and just feeling sorry for ourselves. The offers that appear in this table are from partnerships from which Verywell Mind receives compensation. I just want to feel better and stay well. how is your diet? I so hate that this happening!!! ty. I took a 5mg valium and jumped in my car and drove to the vicinity of the hospital thinking I'm going to get a heart attack and die making several rounds on the block without going in! I certainly don't feel that now. Now, anxiety has crept its way back in and is working over my meds, even stronger. Sleep is a new concern, when my meds always handled that before (mostly why I'm on them in the first place) and I feel all alone. I cant quite put my finger on all the unwellness i feel, but have a doctor cousin who assures me that what i feel is valid even if doctors dont quite understand it. But even then , I think it was triggered to my hormones. I am 62 and endocrinologist suggested I go down on my hormone and now in bed so ill. I occasionally get tachy but not as often as I used to. Looking forward to a couple of days off over Christmas. can be really tender when i breathe in deeply. And it does make you feel nausea. When you say you know the feeling, do you feel really rotten too? No cancer or ulcer found, thank God! The use of "you language" opposed to "I language" makes it more likely that this conversation disintegrated into a full-blown argument, leaving no one feeling particularly good. Misunderstandings in relationships happen to everyone. And tons of other symptoms but No hot flashes. (Peri)menopause seems to fit. The technical storage or access is necessary for the legitimate purpose of storing preferences that are not requested by the subscriber or user. I don't have hot flushes just headaches sore throat and anxiety all the time!! My biggest things now (and some days are almost debilitating) are extreme exhaustion and the other thing I am having a REALLY hard time with is the nausea. Karen, on the other hand, was more likely to receive a response that focused on reducing her frustration level. I'm finally considering some form of HRT, do some research first, if youre in peri estrogen tends to be higher, i developed fibroids when this started and estrogen makes them worse x, my chest pains have been really bad today I feel sick and faint and the head pressure too. dissapointed on the ulcer however as thought would be/provide remedy for resolve. I just feel OFF (not really dizzy) just head foggy! lol. Im scared at nights as well, I had a panic attack the other night, I was so scared!! I am about 2 months shy of my menoversary and i dont want anything to interfere with that. I don't understand how hormones can do this to a person. We want the forums to be a useful resource for our users but it is important to remember that the forums are It took a while to fall asleep but this morning I wake up and its not as bad, not sure if it's anxiety causing this. By Erin Johnston, LCSW I am 49 so this is a (fairly) early age to already be postmeno, but Mom went thru it at 49 as well. I feel terrible live a very healthy lifestyle and have been completely taken back by this every single day for three months. Just want a sprinkle of myself back so I can enjoy life (which is hard to do with this COVID political mess) again ya know? i dont know how i miss your recommendation for sibo as i am checking this site too often so i still looking for a cure for my Gerd and sibo yes as i seen the holistic doctor she prescribed antibiotics which is very scary to take it i read many bad review about it as an alternative she prescribed If i want to take the herbal supplements, take, Oregnao Oil 230 mg twice aday for 4 weeks. I did need to start taking medication, but I don't want to be on it. I am mentally, physically and emotionally drained to say the least. I just turned 53 and have been post-menopausal for almost 2 years. Im so glad I'm not alone. Are you having any other symptom besides the pressure in bladder? I have to force myself to move then I do feel better after awhile. I've had all scans bloods done it goes on! every 2 days. I've had perimenopause for the last two years. Thank goodness for your reply. The technical storage or access is strictly necessary for the legitimate purpose of enabling the use of a specific service explicitly requested by the subscriber or user, or for the sole purpose of carrying out the transmission of a communication over an electronic communications network. I also feel nervous and jittery. I had lots of tests all came back negative. Every day I wake up saying I am going to be strong but then another symptom appears! Gottman JM, Silver N.The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. "I feel" statements should state how the speaker is feeling, the cause of that feeling, and a potential solution. As always, life is full of complexities, and there's never a "right time" to do menopause. These feelings statements are a powerful communication tool. i hope we can help eachother cope. I have so many odd symptoms I just feel like I'm about to drop dead any minute. I do have fibroids and IBS and am recovering from Covid too (mine was very gastric) so none of that helps me understand what's going on and why. The shoulder pain was just from me sitting wrong and being on my lap-top with not very good posture. Can I ask which menopause supplements are you taking? But it's one of the perimenopause symptoms some of us experience as I speak to other women going thru perimenopause and some have talked about this kind of symptoms. I did an at home UTI test and it was negative so have any of you ladies had this. Hi Sian: Im sending good, healing thoughts and prayers your way! Thank you for reading my frustrations . When i get to three weeks of nightly Premarin, ill cut back to twice a week maitenance. I have always been bubbly and positive. Did yours go back down.? im on HRT patch and anti depressant but i dont think this one is working so i may need to switch. I never use to be like this. It is likely that Susan only got a defensive response. Mine is like you said with the upper stomach. The technical storage or access is required to create user profiles to send advertising, or to track the user on a website or across several websites for similar marketing purposes. The nurse was lovely and all fine. Treatment such as creams and pessaries are often very effective in helping the symptoms. What next! I am afraid to ask. Its so scary. My fault though i guess i should have googled "urinary problems in menopause" . We are strong women and our bodies go through so much (bleed like a stuck pig for decades of our life, push amazing objects our of us the size of an average bowling ball then try and figure out what to do with this object for the next 18 years cuz the little suckers don't come with handbooks, our bodies are dis-figured and scared out of love, then we go through THIS - lol). Without focussing on God's promises, I find it hard to see light at the end of this menopausal tunnel. I hope things get better for all of us. I too feel like I'm slowly dying. please ease my mind and tell me im not alone. 5 Signs of an Energy Vampire and How to Cope, Effects of Conflict and Stress on Relationships, Relationship Emotions: How to Express Feelings in a Relationship, How Nitpicking Can Damage Your Relationship, How to Improve Your Relationships With Effective Communication Skills, Newlywed Advice: Tips for New Married Couples, Daily Tips for a Healthy Mind to Your Inbox, I understand you feel that way, but I feel this way: the benefits of I-language and communicating perspective during conflict, What a difference a pronoun makes: i/we versus you/me and worried couples perceptions of their interaction quality, Journal of Language and Social Psychology. i am beyond tired everyday all day ( prob cause i dont sleep much ) and my body doesnt feel good. I have a lot of anxiety over it! Also forcing beverages down to keep from getting dehydrated. it was prescribed me for palpitations but i felt even sicker taking it . It also covers how people can use these feeling statements and potential mistakes to watch for. Did your nausea come in waves. Don't really bother me but do any of you ladies have this awful nausea? I don't get any pain either with this, and before I never got pain with IC . I dont want to use anti depressants either. I also have low back pain but I have 3 facet joints in my lower back that are shot so the back pain (I think) is explained. While there is no guarantee that the other person will respond in a receptive way, using feeling statements can minimize the risk that the conversation will devolve into hostility and argumentativeness. Honestly it's terrible. Out of all the symptoms I have had, the urinary ones were the worst! Im now seeing a traditional Gastro Dr who takes my insurance i was praying not to repeat tests with her which she didnt . I had no idea all of this would hit after periods stopped, in postmeno. It feels as im constantly running to the bathroom even at home and not much comes out. I seen your post and it sounds like me. This Corona Virus lockdown is not helping either. My husband and I work very closely in our jobs ,and so we can navigate times when I need to flop, however , sometimes we are called to try and carry on because of who we are in our jobs. I had lots of stomach issues with Covid, super constipated and it lasted for what seemed like forever but I also have belly issues with peri. It can drive you to the edge especially if you are googling. It does not burn when I pee and this too comes and goes. I realize this was posted months ago but I'm hoping there are still others out there that can relate i feel as if this perimenooause is breaking me i literally feel as if I'm dying from nausea the moment i wake up to constant anxiety and panic attacks, jelly legs etc its horrible and so overwhelming I don't recognize myself I used to be such a practical thinking person. When I first started this menopause "thang" I was like "this is a piece of cake"! However, everybody can learn to use these and will benefit from non-accusatory communication. My head hurts all the way down through my neck! I know exactly what you mean! Every day I feel like either the end is near or that I will be committedit's just insane. Not sure why or what happens to our body during those times. When people talk about feelings, they often have a tendency to assign blame first while downplaying the feeling. Verywell Mind's content is for informational and educational purposes only. NO APPETITE either. I come on this forum from time to time when i get scared thoughseeing you mention the rib pain will help me sleep a bit tonight - thank you . I saw the most horrific things. Research also suggests that this approach can be helpful when communicating with others: Some settings where I-messages are frequently utilized include: This technique is frequently used in couples therapy to help improve communication in romantic relationships. my nausea was about once a month for over a year. A feeling statement keeps the focus on the feeling of the speaker which is less likely to elicit a defensive reaction and more likely to promote effective communication. I did many tests what i know is i have Gerd . i had that for a few years and the more i was stressing about it the worst the discomfort got! Strangely sad, too. It will be 3 years in December since my last period. I'd also love to hear from anybody else going through the same. My jaw is always tight, my neck hurts, my ears are ringing. Starts off with a headache and nausea like morning sickness! i have similar issues i have sibo and low iron i found out by seeing an integrative doctor she ordered antibiotics for the sibo and said after taking it i will be a diffrent person but when i read the side effect of the med im scared to take it the reaction with covid vaccine my body is so senstive to meds . 2016;35(2):180-205. doi:10.1177/0261927X15583114. I have no appetite, nausea, dry mouth, incredibly fatigued - tired, headaches, occasional hot flashes, night sweats, etc.. Fighting to keep weight on via force feeding myself. was wondering if you found out what it was and how long you had it and did it ever go away. and Privacy Policy and steps will be taken to remove posts identified feel better and welcome to write anytime you like xoxo. The nauseau and anxiety are just awful. I'm doing my best to cope. Its awful and i dont know if things are going to magically settle down after im post menopause. I used to get naseau but not very often now. Should not be any higher than 30. doi:10.7717/peerj.4831, Biesen JN, Schooler DE, Smith DA. I feel for you, because I am feeling the same way. Hi Sian, i also had endometrial polyps. Then the nausea which would come in waves. My worst symptom is health anxiety. I've had my blood, urine, fecal checked --- all have come out normal. One common pitfall when using "I feel' statements is to use them as a way to express a judgment or assign blame to the other person. Ill be 56 in August.April 15 2019 was my last period. It lasted for about 6 months and then new symptoms took over and the bladder issues went away. "I feel stressed out when the house is so disorganized. I think my bladder and digestive issues are the biggest problem causing my health anxiety. My problem now is the pain between shoulder blades and moving to the front. But since this anxiety I am feeling very lonely and scared. and I wait in the car park without going in. I'm now in battle to keep weight on. Hi Leisa: im now about 2 weeks post. I have aches and pains all over my body hot and cold all night I cant sleep headaches all the time dizzy tired pain in my left side it feels and sounds like the rib pain you ladies were speaking of but just sore every morning waking up feeling like doom its driving me crazy and its hard to talk to anyone about it thats not going through it because they just think that theres something wrong with you or youre having anxiety but its way much much deeper than that, but the dry mouth and the dry eyes and pain in the body is what is bothering me the most besides everything else I dont even look the same when I look in the mirror I feel like Im somebody else like everything is changed and Im not the same person I was just a year ago I have to fix this I pray on it I buy things to make me feel better and they dont but Im going to find a way to fix this I have to oh and I cant forget the buzzing in my ears Ive never experienced anything so horrible in my life all of this is just horrific but Im going to pray about it and Im definitely going to get better I have to. 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